eHarmony Finally Comes Out of the Closet with Same-sex Dating Site

What I’m wondering is why these women are on a bed, half-naked and using a laptop to get their kicks… they both look pretty sexy – is this insinuating that women need porn to get aroused? Ok, just kidding – what I mean is, the pic looks fake to me – but then most adverts do :) The only beef I have with these sites is – they tend to work well if you live in a major center.  Otherwise you’re like me, just dreamin’ baby – and if you’re in a major center, WTF, can’t you just go down to Starbucks or Chapters and cruise??  Oh, I’m so outta touch!!

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No word yet on that marriage thing, but at least gay and lesbian couples can now lie about their age and weight on an eHarmony-powered website.

Homosexuals can now spend hours filling out questionnaires, browsing profiles and forking over money to eHarmony for the thrill of online dating.

No, gays and lesbians can’t join eHarmony.com, but thanks to a New Jersey court ruling, the online dating giant was forced to create a separate-but-equal website.   more >>> if you really need it

A Tradition of Same Gender Marriage in Nigeria

One of the contentious issues in the debate over homosexuality and same sex marriage is whether a marriage between persons of the same gender is totally alien to African culture and tradition. Those opposing same sex marriage have continued to argue that same gender union is foreign to Africa. On the contrary, I have tried to draw their attention to the fact that there is a strain of same gender marriage in African tradition particularly in Igboland. And that we should not rush to deny this, or pretend it does not exist or just sweep it under the concept all in the quest to establish that same gender marriage is alien to the African continent, and must be banned.

I hail from Mbaise in Imo State in Southern Nigeria. Traditionally, in my community, marriage is taken to be a union between a man and a woman or a man and many women as the case may be.
more>>> Culture Kitchen

Nigeria: Homosexuals Kick Against Same-Sex Prohibition Bill
12 March 2009

Abuja — Homosexuals yesterday stormed the National Assembly to protest over a bill which seeks to prohibit same sex marriages in Nigeria.

The group, comprising young males and females, said they were opposed to the bill because the United Nations charter on Human Rights guaranteed them freedom of association and freedom to sexual orientation, all of which the proposed law will deny them.

The protest was countered by a group of religious leaders who were in attendance at a public hearing organised by the House of Representatives Joint Committee on Human Rights, Women Affairs and Justice. more >>> allafrica.com

Nigeria Gay Activist Speaks Out
Gay rights activist Rashidi Williams addresses Nigeria’s National Assembly 11 March 2009

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Nigerian gay rights activists have told the country’s lawmakers that a new bill to outlaw same sex marriage would lead to widespread human rights abuses.

The new law would mean prison sentences for gay people who live together, and anyone who “aids and abets” them.

The plea by activists was made to a public committee of the National Assembly which is discussing the bill.

It is already illegal to have gay sex in Nigeria but the new law would extend police powers to arrest suspects.

“This bill is not necessary, we see no reason why people should be criminalised,” Rashidi Williams, 23, of the Queer Alliance of Nigeria told the committee.

“I did not choose to be gay. It is trial enough to live in this country, we should not create more laws to make us suffer,” he said.  

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5000 Years of Oppression Of Women Now Passing As Humor – What A Giant Leap Forward!

The humor, the irony – obvious. Not funny. Who laughs?

1.) The converted: The ususpecting people who accept feminism in theory but still practice ‘boy’s club’ prejudices and affilliations when it comes to the real world.
2.) All the programmed men and (yes) women, who still live in an unevolved state of a male dominated spoonfed reality.

WatchMojo Comedy Skit: ‘Interview With Lesbian Scientist’ – Pure Misogynist Propaganda

The title of the video is Comedy Skit: Boys Will Be Boys
In this comedy skit, an interviewer’s curiosity overcomes him when interviewing a respected scientist who also happens to be a lesbian.

This is intended to be a comedy skit but is really more of a dramatic representation of the misogynistic jingoism of the college media sector. I immediately felt outraged and saw no humor in it – I thought there might be a point at the end perhaps showing that this is a demonstration of heteronormative abuse of lesbian women and women in general. And the way the other guy comes in and takes her by the arm, I thought for sure she would explode!

It’s so outrageous that they used breast cancer as the topic. I think that because the woman in this video is a good actress, she truly portrayed how deeply a woman in that position would be outraged and hurt. To me, it plays out as a piece that shows how wrong it is for men to view lesbian women as part of their ‘entertainment’ domain. The heteronormative world all too often reduces their lgbt counterparts to the sum of their sexual parts and activities. By representing that stereotype in a humorous setting, it further propagates the sentiment for young straight folks to continue the practice.

Young lgbt folks should be culturejamming this media with mockups that show how abusive it really is. (see adbusters to learn more about culturejamming)

The site that hosted the video is called watchmojo.com.
I went to the about section of the site and it reads like the journal wish meanderings of a ‘Dragon’s Den’ acolyte. I have no idea if hipmojo is what passes for popular media with the young hip stylin’ (straight) demographic.

Here is the original location of this offensive piece of tripe.

Reality TV – Homophobic Verbal Gay Bashing Test by ABC News in a New Jersey Bar

ABC News Tested Americans’ increasing open-mindedness, they staged a verbal gay-bashing scenario at a local sports bar in Linden, N.J. They hired an actor to play a homophobic patron. 2 Actors to play a gay couple, played the targets of his slurs. Two additional actors played a heterosexual couple at the opposite end of the bar.